Have been wanting to write about this for a long time but sometimes you kinda just forget what you want to write about during that spur of the moment... Feels kinda irritating at that point of time. But hey I finally remembered what I want to write! So what is it about?? Birthday Parties.
I kinda realised that birthdays are really obligations for people to attend. Why so? I mean if you attend somebody's birthday they will be obliged to attend yours simple as that..... So if people attend your party sometimes its just a OBLIGATION.... Which is kind of sad..... I mean so everyone will be attending each other's birthday party just for the sake of showing their face... In louis context, waste of money. BWAHAHAHAHAHAH!! Right louis?? Of course this means the present has no sincerity lor.....
Its kinda like a rabid disease, one person invites you, you feel obliged to attend and when you invite others they feel obliged to attend.... And it goes round and round.... No offence to people whom I have attended birthday parties, but I just feel birthday parties may have lost their initial meaning or taste. What is a birthday party meant to be?? A gathering of good friends to celebrate joyous occassion?? Celebration of your own joyous occasion?? If it is to celebrate your own joyous occasion of turning another year older, wouldn't inviting your close of good friends be good enough rather than inviting people whom you aren't even very close to??
To say that the more the merrier, why don't you hold the birthday party in a small cosy area?? That way don't you feel that a lot of people turned up for your party? Personally, to me, a gathering of close friends would be more than sufficient for me... It serves the purpose all round. Rather than talking to people and put a FAKE front.....
Yeapz.... Of course, what I've written is always one-sided and bias sometimes.... You be the judge *winkz*